Have you asked your partner to help but they won't or they say that they will help and then they forget?
The secret to getting your partner to help is your ENERGY when you approach the conversation. Are you already thinking that they won't help? Are you thinking that you have to do everything yourself?
Or are you wanting to work together with your partner to solve the problem?
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Your partner has asked for space. What do you do now?
First, you need to understand WHY your partner has asked for space. What's happening in the relationship that is causing them asking for space (spoiler alert: it's pressure).
Putting pressure on the relationship is the opposite of giving space. It's what CAUSES your partner to ask for space. Pressure on the relationship takes all of the fun and joy out of the relationship AND it blinds us from seeing the red flags we are worried about.
Want to learn more about what's causing the pressure in your relationship and why your partner asks for space?
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Are your relationship problems keeping you from living your life?
I lost YEARS of my life because of unhealthy relationships. YEARS. I'd wonder why I wasn't more successful at work. Why it always felt like I was behind. Where my anxiety and depression were coming from.
It was ALL because I was in unhealthy relationships. I didn't even know HOW to have a healthy relationship. All I knew was the highs of having things be great and the anxious, depressed lows when things weren't working. I didn't know how to create stability and connection. Or how to deal with conflict.
In November this year, I set a goal to create $3300 through life coaching. And I did it. I created it. I figured out what was between me and that goal, and I let go of what didn’t serve me anymore.
The ONLY reason that I’m able to do that now is because I’m not spending all of my time and emotional energy in a relationship that doesn’t work.
Instead of focusing on my own life, I used to spend weeks feeling anxious, wondering if someone liked me, and when they were going to call.
I COULDN’T create the life I wanted when I was drowning in relationship anxiety and wondering what was wrong with me.
How would your life change if you fixed your relationship? If you finally figured out how to have a healthy relationship that built you up instead of one that keeps you from creating your dreams?